| Edition |
Berkley trade paperback edition. |
| Description |
xxiii, vii, 408 pages : illustrations ; 23 cm |
| Contents |
Note on terminology -- Introduction -- pt. I : The nature of abusive thinking -- The mystery ; The mythology ; The abusive mentality ; The types of abusive men -- pt. II : The abusive man in relationships -- How abuse begins ; The abusive man in everyday life ; Abusive men and sex ; Abusive men and addiction ; The abusive man and breaking up -- pt. III : The abusive man in the world -- Abusive men as parents ; Abusive men and their allies ; The abusive man and the legal system -- pt. IV : Changing the abusive man -- The making of an abusive man ; The process of change ; Creating an abuse-free world. |
| Bibliography |
Includes bibliographical references (pages 391-400) and index. |
| Summary |
In this book, domestic violence expert Lundy Bancroft uses his perspective as a therapist for abusive and controlling men to help women, their children, and other family members who have been touched by abuse understand why abusers behave the way they do and what can be done about it. Bancroft teaches women how to survive and improve an abusive relationship; how to determine how dangerous an abuser is and when it is impossible to rectify a situation; and how to get out of a relationship safely. Bancroft identifies nine types of abusive men, addressing different styles, from the physical batterer to the strictly verbal abuser. He dispels the pervasive societal myths surrounding abuse, exposing common excuses used by abusers, such as having experienced an abusive childhood or substance addiction. Bancroft answers commonly asked questions, such as what warning signs of abuse to look for early in a relationship; what is and isn't abusive behavior; how to know if a woman and her children are in danger; and how to tell when a man is really changing. |
| Subject |
Abusive men -- United States -- Psychology.
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Wife abuse -- United States.
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Family violence -- United States.
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Victims of family violence -- United States.
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| Added Title |
Inside the minds of angry and controlling men |
| ISBN |
0425191656 paperback $14.00 |
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