1 New Archetypes 1 -- 2 Today and Yesterday 5 -- 3 Developmentally Speaking: Men in Their Twenties and Thirties 16 -- 4 Mirror Images 20 -- 5 You Will Be Judged! 25 -- 6 Who Pays? 31 -- 7 Resist Becoming "The Source" 36 -- 8 Too Young or Just Too Wrong? 40 -- 9 Commitment: Can He or Can't He? 48 -- 10 Power 60 -- 11 Equality 69 -- 12 It's Only About Sex, Isn't It? 78 -- 13 Communication in the Bedroom 85 -- 14 Giving Yourself Permission 98 -- 15 Taking the Lead 106 -- 16 Designing the Relationship 110 -- 17 His Friends/Her Friends 113 -- 18 Social Functions: When to Include/When to Exclude 119 -- 19 Handling His Family 124 -- 20 Help! His Mother is a Pit Bull 134 -- 21 Handling Her Family 141 -- 22 Their Stories 147 -- 23 Their Advice 155 -- 24 Men Speak 162 -- 25 Looking for Love 169 -- 26 The Truth About Being Older 177.
