Rediscovering the girl within -- A woman's search for self -- Adult equals male: Katherine -- Marriage-women's crucible for growing up: Wendy and Helen -- A choice of one's own: Megan -- The division of purpose from selfless care: Sophie and Willa -- The power of feminine ideals: Jillian and Jo -- Natural paths to the girl within: Carol and Ruth -- Reckoning the relationship between daughter and mother: transforming a critical tie -- Reclaiming my own girl within -- Men's theories, women's lives -- Womanly images of self and development.