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010      2002032841 
019    1048019002|a1099641094 
020    0060521961|q(paper ;|qalk. paper) 
020    9780060521967|q(paper ;|qalk. paper) 
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100 1  Niven, David,|d1971-|1https://id.oclc.org/worldcat/entity/
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245 10 100 simple secrets of great relationships :|bwhat 
       scientists have learned and how you can use it /|cDavid 
       Niven. 
246 3  One hundred simple secrets of great relationships 
250    1st ed. 
260    San Francisco :|bHarperSanFrancisco,|c©2003. 
300    xiii, 223 pages ;|c19 cm 
336    text|btxt|2rdacontent 
337    unmediated|bn|2rdamedia 
338    volume|bnc|2rdacarrier 
504    Includes bibliographical references (pages 211-223). 
505 00 |g1.|tThe Mundane Is Heroic|g1 --|g2.|tSee Possibilities 
       Where Others See Obstacles|g3 --|g3.|tSet Rules for 
       Conflict|g5 --|g4.|tAnyone Can Find a Happy Relationship
       |g8 --|g5.|tIt's Not How Hard You Try|g10 --|g6.|tYou Have
       Nothing to Envy|g12 --|g7.|tAttitude Triumphs over Outcome
       |g14 --|g8.|tDon't Be Bound by Tradition|g16 --|g9.|tThe 
       Past Is Not the Future|g18 --|g10.|tNo One Wins the 
       Comparison Game|g21 --|g11.|tSee the Love Around You|g23 -
       -|g12.|tDoing Nothing Is Rarely a Solution|g25 --|g13.
       |tYou'll Forget the Disagreement but Remember the 
       Disagreeing|g27 --|g14.|tPursue What You Need Forever, Not
       What You Want Today|g29 --|g15.|tSeek Harmony in Your Life
       |g32 --|g16.|tThe Relationship Test: Are You Lonely?|g34 -
       -|g17.|tIt's the Little Things That Matter the Most|g36 --
       |g18.|tA Relationship Requires Two Equals|g38 --|g19.
       |tBeware of Fairy Tales|g41 --|g20.|tCultivate a Common 
       Interest|g43 --|g21.|tTreat the Disease, Not the Symptom
       |g45 --|g22.|tThere's No Point in Putting On a Show|g47 --
       |g23.|tYou Make Your Own History|g49 --|g24.|tMaintain 
       Your Sense of Control|g51 --|g25.|tMoney Can't Buy Love, 
       but It Can Buy Stress|g53 --|g26.|tThere Are No Mind 
       Readers|g55 --|g27.|tThere's No Need to Hurry|g57 --|g28.
       |tFriends Speak from Experience--Their Own|g59 --|g29.
       |tDrink Lesss|g61 --|g30.|tDecide Whether You Want to Win 
       or Be Happy|g63 --|g31.|tA Sense of Humor Helps|g65 --
       |g32.|tThink Beyond the Engagement|g67 --|g33.|tSee the 
       Friendship in Your Relationship|g69 --|g34.|tThe Most Time
       Is Not the Best Time|g71 --|g35.|tReduce TV Time|g73 --
       |g36.|tThe World Will Intrude on Your Relationship|g75 --
       |g37.|tGentlemen Prefer the Same Things Ladies Prefer|g77 
       --|g38.|tLove Is Blind but Life Isn't Always|g79 --|g39.
       |tBalance Depends on Which Way You Lean|g81 --|g40.|tA 
       Relationship by Any Other Name Is Just as Important|g83 --
       |g41.|tThe Future Matters More than the Past|g85 --|g42.
       |tYou Don't Have to See Eye to Eye on Everything|g87 --
       |g43.|tBe Open with Each Other|g89 --|g44.|tAccentuate the
       Positive in All Aspects of Your Life|g91 --|g45.|tIt Helps
       to Be Friends|g93 --|g46.|tFoundations Are Created in the 
       Beginning|g95 --|g47.|tAmbivalence Is a Negative|g97 --
       |g48.|tShare Housework|g99 --|g49.|tA Relationship Starts 
       with Yourself|g101 --|g50.|tLet Go of the Burden of Pain
       |g103 --|g51.|tDevelop a Healthy Calm|g105 --|g52.|tThink 
       of Your Own Ideal|g107 --|g53.|tStay Flexible|g109 --|g54.
       |tThink About Potential|g111 --|g55.|tEven in a 
       Relationship, You Are Still an Individual|g113 --|g56.
       |tRest Up--This Is Going to Take Some Effort|g115 --|g57.
       |tLike the Way You Look|g117 --|g58.|tDon't Romanticize 
       the Past|g119 --|g59.|tShare the Praise and Share in the 
       Blame|g121 --|g60.|tYou Can't Find Without Looking|g123 --
       |g61.|tMeaningful Commitment Is Mutual Commitment|g125 --
       |g62.|tFriendships Predict Relationships|g127 --|g63.
       |tPrepare for Milestones|g129 --|g64.|tDon't Bring Your 
       Job Home with You|g131 --|g65.|tWe Assume Similar 
       Preferences|g133 --|g66.|tDon't Let Secrets Eat You Up
       |g135 --|g67.|tTo Find a Better Way, Look Where You've 
       Been|g137 --|g68.|tMoney Matters Less over Time|g139 --
       |g69.|tRecognize the Value of Shared Values|g141 --|g70.
       |tUnderstand What You're Looking For|g143 --|g71.|tNever 
       Let Faults Stand for the Whole|g145 --|g72.|tYou'll Need 
       Some Relationship Friends|g147 --|g73.|tDon't Wait to 
       Start Moving in the Right Direction|g149 --|g74.|tMusic 
       Can Bring Us Together|g151 --|g75.|tDefine What You Need
       |g153 --|g76.|tShow You Care, Even When It's Hard To|g155 
       --|g77.|tMake Your Decisions for Positive Reasons|g157 --
       |g78.|tA Relationship Is Built on a Foundation of Support
       |g159 --|g79.|tThe Pieces of Your Life Must Fit Together
       |g162 --|g80.|tMaster Your Fears|g164 --|g81.|tWe Are All 
       Much More Alike than Different|g166 --|g82.|tLimit Your 
       Interest in the Past|g168 --|g83.|tGet Your Reality from 
       Reality|g171 --|g84.|tYou Are Never Too Old to Find Love
       |g173 --|g85.|tWe Look Inward to See How People Feel About
       Us|g175 --|g86.|tBe Willing to Evolve|g178 --|g87.
       |tConnect, See You're Capable, and Know You Count|g180 --
       |g88.|tReliability Counts a Lot|g182 --|g89.|tYou Are 
       Complete by Yourself|g185 --|g90.|tIntensity Fades|g187 --
       |g91.|tBeware Second Opinions|g189 --|g92.|tHave Faith but
       Don't Forget Reality|g191 --|g93.|tPay Attention|g193 --
       |g94.|tNice People Don't Finish Last|g195 --|g95.
       |tRelationships Are like Modern Art|g197 --|g96.|tIt's Not
       Easy, Even if It Looks It|g199 --|g97.|tMost People Are 
       Looking for Experienced Rookies|g201 --|g98.|tIt's for You
       --or It Isn't|g203 --|g99.|tSee the Horizon, Watch Your 
       Step|g205 --|g100.|tThe Search for Perfection Is Endless
       |g208. 
520    Drawing on the latest research and psychological studies, 
       the author introduces one hundred simple, easy-to-follow 
       keys to building a long-lasting and healthy relationship. 
650  0 Interpersonal relations. 
650  0 Commitment (Psychology) 
650  0 Couples. 
650  0 Marriage|xPsychological aspects. 
650  0 Man-woman relationships|xPsychological aspects. 
650  0 Love. 
650  2 Family Characteristics 
650  7 couples.|2aat 
650  7 Commitment (Psychology)|2fast|0(OCoLC)fst00869699 
650  7 Couples.|2fast|0(OCoLC)fst00881567 
650  7 Interpersonal relations.|2fast|0(OCoLC)fst00977397 
650  7 Love.|2fast|0(OCoLC)fst01002769 
650  7 Man-woman relationships|xPsychological aspects.|2fast
       |0(OCoLC)fst01007088 
650  7 Marriage|xPsychological aspects.|2fast|0(OCoLC)fst01010481
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