Introduction -- Growing up too soon -- Is sexual development happening earlier? -- Gender stereotypes and sexual orientation -- The buzz on drugs -- Technology is keeping kids busy -- Sex and violence in music, movies, and media -- Your kids are watching you--and plenty of others -- Bullying in our schools -- Terror in our world -- Fitting in with fashion and friends -- Tween weight problems -- Achievement or underachievement -- Parenting for achievement -- Parenting in the middle of the v of love -- Epilogue.