LEADER 00000nim 22004815i 4500 001 MWT10757025 003 MWT 005 20151031160332.0 006 m o h 007 sz zunnnnnuned 007 cr nnannnuuuua 008 130915s2012 xxunnn es z n eng d 020 9781452627434|q(sound recording : hoopla Audio Book) 020 1452627436|q(sound recording : hoopla Audio Book) 028 42 MWT10757025 037 10757025|bMidwest Tape, LLC|nhttp://www.midwesttapes.com 040 Midwest|beng|erda 099 eAudiobook hoopla 100 1 Finch, David,|d1977- 245 14 The journal of best practices :|ba memoir of marriage, Asperger syndrome, and one man's quest to be a better husband /|cDavid Finch. 250 Unabridged. 264 1 [United States] :|bTantor Audio :|bMade available through hoopla,|c2012. 300 1 online resource (1 audio file (420 min.)) :|bdigital. 336 spoken word|bspw|2rdacontent 337 audio|bs|2rdamedia 338 online resource|bcr|2rdacarrier 506 Digital content provided by hoopla. 511 0 Read by the author. 520 At some point in nearly every marriage, a wife finds herself asking, What is wrong with my husband?! In David Finch's case, this turns out to be an apt question. Five years after he married Kristen, the love of his life, they learn that he has Asperger syndrome. The diagnosis explains David's ever-growing list of quirks and compulsions, his lifelong propensity to quack and otherwise melt down in social exchanges, and his clinical- strength inflexibility. But it doesn't make him any easier to live with.Determined to change, David sets out to understand Asperger syndrome and learn to be a better husband-no easy task for a guy whose inability to express himself rivals his two-year-old daughter's, who thinks his responsibility for laundry extends no further than throwing things in (or at) the hamper, and whose autism- spectrum condition makes seeing his wife's point of view a near impossibility.Nevertheless, David devotes himself to improving his marriage with an endearing yet hilarious zeal that involves excessive note-taking, performance reviews, and most of all, the Journal of Best Practices: a collection of hundreds of maxims and hard-won epiphanies that result from self-reflection both comic and painful. They include "Don't change the radio station when she's singing along," "Apologies do not count when you shout them," and "Be her friend, first and always." Guided by the Journal of Best Practices, David transforms himself over the course of two years from the world's most trying husband to the husband who tries the hardest, the husband he'd always meant to be.Filled with humor and surprising wisdom, The Journal of Best Practices is a candid story of ruthless self-improvement, a unique window into living with an autism-spectrum condition, and proof that a true heart can conquer all. 538 Mode of access: World Wide Web. 650 0 Asperger's syndrome|xPatients|zUnited States|vBiography. 650 0 Asperger's syndrome|xPatients|xFamily relationships |zUnited States. 650 0 Husbands|zUnited States|vBiography. 650 0 Fathers|zUnited States|vBiography. 650 0 Self-actualization (Psychology)|vCase studies. 650 0 Marriage|vCase studies. 650 0 Families|vCase studies. 710 2 hoopla digital. 914 MWT10757025