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100 1  Brown, Emma|c(Journalist),|eauthor. 
245 10 To raise a boy :|bclassrooms, locker rooms, bedrooms, and 
       the hidden struggles of American boyhood /|cEmma Brown. 
250    First One Signal Publishers/Atria Books hardcover edition.
264  1 New York :|bOne Signal Publishers, Atria,|c2021. 
264  4 |c©2021 
300    viii, 305 pages ;|c24 cm 
336    text|btxt|2rdacontent 
337    unmediated|bn|2rdamedia 
338    volume|bnc|2rdacarrier 
504    Includes bibliographical references (pages [249]-288) and 
       index. 
505 0  What we don't see: the invisible epidemic of sexual 
       assault against boys. Why boys don't ask for help (or, 
       "Don't be a pussy!") -- The culture of sport -- Sexual 
       assault is not "horseplay" -- The myths about boys we 
       still believe -- Why men's stories matter -- A town hurts 
       -- Boys will be men: nature, nurture, and rethinking 
       boyhood. Hormones, brains, and how parents treat boys 
       differently--without even realizing it -- How to help boys
       succeed -- The man box and men's health -- Fostering boys'
       emotional literacy -- How fathers build the man box--or 
       tear it down -- Why your own relationship matters -- Signs
       of change -- The sex ed crisis: why silence about sex is 
       dangerous for kids. How to start the conversation -- 
       Sexting: translating offline etiquette to online life -- 
       Why boys should practice masturbating without porn -- 
       Teaching sexual citizenship in schools -- The problem with
       abstinence-only education -- The new sex ed: porn literacy
       -- Shaping your minds: how schools are failing young 
       children. The problem with ignoring sexual violence in 
       school -- The problem with punishment -- The case of John 
       Doe 2 -- The potential for another way: restorative 
       justice -- The problem with "consent": lessons from Grace,
       Aziz Ansari's accuser. "No" is not always spelled "N-O" --
       A blow job is not consent -- Learning to handle rejection 
       -- What we can (and can't) blame on alcohol -- Signs of 
       change -- Racism, violence, trauma: how close 
       relationships can help boys cope. Race, racism, and black 
       boys in America -- How trauma is linked to violence -- "We
       can't police our way out of this" -- "I still deal with 
       the pain every day" -- How gun violence and domestic 
       violence are intertwined -- "It makes you feel like you 
       have someone" -- Why Harry needs Sally: how all-boys 
       schools are trying to stay relevant. "I lost out on the 
       ability to relate to girls": single-sex ed and social 
       skills -- Changing culture on all-boys schools -- How to 
       talk to boys -- What to look for in a boy's school -- Boy-
       friends: the power of male friendship to create a new 
       culture. The roots of sexual harassment -- Harnessing the 
       power of sports -- The promise of social-emotional 
       learning in schools -- Teaching boys they have a gender, 
       too -- Teaching boys to see themselves as change agents --
       Boys leading boys. 
505 0  Prologue -- What we don't see: the invisible epidemic of 
       sexual assault against boys -- Boys will be men: nature, 
       nurture, and rethinking boyhood -- The sex ed crisis: why 
       silence about sex is dangerous for kids -- Shaping your 
       minds: how schools are failing young children -- The 
       problem with "consent": lessons from Grace, Aziz Ansari's 
       accuser -- Racism, violence, trauma: how close 
       relationships can help boys cope -- Why Harry needs Sally:
       how all-boys schools are trying to stay relevant -- Boy-
       friends: the power of male friendship to create a new 
       culture -- Epilogue. 
520    "A journalist's searing investigation into how we teach 
       boys to be men--and how we can do better"--|cProvided by 
       publisher. 
520    Brown was at home with her newborn son when the #MeToo 
       movement erupted. Traveling around the country, 
       interviewing hundreds of people, she wanted to understand 
       the challenges boys face and how to address them. She 
       discovered that 23 percent of boys believe men should use 
       violence to get respect; 22 percent of an incoming college
       freshman class said they had already committed sexual 
       violence; 58 percent of young adults said they have never 
       had a conversation with their parents about respect and 
       care in sexual relationships. Here Brown exposes the 
       crisis in young men's emotional and physical health... and
       in doing so upends everything we thought we knew about 
       boys. -- adapted from jacket 
648  7 2000-2099|2fast 
650  0 Boys|zUnited States|xSocial conditions|y21st century. 
650  0 Boys|zUnited States|xPsychology. 
650  0 Child rearing|zUnited States|xHistory|y21st century. 
650  0 Masculinity|zUnited States|xHistory|y21st century. 
650  0 Parenting. 
650  7 SOCIAL SCIENCE / Sociology / General.|2bisacsh 
650  7 Boys|xPsychology.|2fast|0(OCoLC)fst00837382 
650  7 Boys|xSocial conditions.|2fast|0(OCoLC)fst00837387 
650  7 Child rearing.|2fast|0(OCoLC)fst00854588 
650  7 Masculinity.|2fast|0(OCoLC)fst01011027 
651  7 United States.|2fast|0(OCoLC)fst01204155 
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