LEADER 00000cam a2200469Ii 4500 001 on1237119642 003 OCoLC 005 20210223122124.0 008 210210s2021 nyu b 000 0aeng d 010 bl2021000479 019 1162417033|a1230148175|a1236203559|a1236204526 020 9780063059900 020 0063059908 035 (OCoLC)1237119642|z(OCoLC)1162417033|z(OCoLC)1230148175 |z(OCoLC)1236203559|z(OCoLC)1236204526 040 NjBwBT|beng|cOQX|erda|dOQX|dOCLCO|dYDX|dLMJ|dDZM|dOCLCF |dBDX 049 CKEA 050 14 HV6626.2|b.S45 2021 082 04 362.82/92092|aB|223 100 1 Selvaratnam, Tanya,|eauthor. 245 10 Assume nothing :|ba story of intimate violence /|cTanya Selvaratnam. 250 First edition. 264 1 New York, NY :|bHarper, an imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers,|c[2021] 264 1 |c©2021 300 xviii, 250 pages ;|c24 cm 336 text|2rdacontent 337 unmediated|2rdamedia 338 volume|2rdacarrier 504 Includes bibliographical references (pages [231]-250). 505 0 The fairy tale -- Entrap -- Isolate -- Control -- Demean - - Abuse -- The nightmare -- What is intimate violence? -- Extraction -- The pattern -- Coming forward -- The roller coaster -- The fallout -- The lesson -- Moving forward -- Coda (six months later) -- Epilogue. 520 An award-winning filmmaker recounts the intimate abuse she suffered from former New York State Attorney General Eric Schneiderman, using her story as a prism to examine the domestic violence crisis plaguing America. 520 When Tanya Selvaratnam met then New York State Attorney General Eric Schneiderman at the Democratic National Convention in July 2016, they seemed like the perfect match. Behind closed doors, however, Schneiderman became controlling, mean, and manipulative. He drank heavily and used sedatives. Sex turned violent, and he called Tanya-- who was born in Sri Lanka and grew up in Southern California-- his 'brown slave.' Tanya knew the signs of domestic violence, and had not seen herself as vulnerable, but became trapped in a violent relationship with one of the most powerful men in New York. Here she describes how she found the strength to leave-- and how she reclaimed her freedom and her voice. -- adapted from jacket 600 10 Selvaratnam, Tanya. 600 10 Schneiderman, Eric T.,|d1954- 650 0 Abused women|zUnited States|vBiography.9780063059900 650 0 Intimate partner violence|zUnited States. 650 0 Abusive men|zUnited States. 650 7 Abused women.|2fast|0(OCoLC)fst00794870 650 7 Abusive men.|2fast|0(OCoLC)fst00794903 650 7 Intimate partner violence.|2fast|0(OCoLC)fst01747311 651 7 United States.|2fast|0(OCoLC)fst01204155 655 7 Autobiographies.|2lcgft 655 7 Autobiographies.|2fast|0(OCoLC)fst01919894 655 7 Biographies.|2fast|0(OCoLC)fst01919896 994 C0|bCKE
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