| Edition |
First Main Street Books edition. |
| Description |
287 pages ; 21 cm |
| Note |
Originally published in hardcover by Doubleday, ©1996. |
| Bibliography |
Includes bibliographical references. |
| Contents |
Prologue: Divided from Ourselves -- Ch. 1. A Sickness of the Soul -- Ch. 2. Haunted by Shame -- Ch. 3. From Gay Shame to Gay Pride -- Ch. 4. Affect, Sex, and Relationships -- Ch. 5. Partners in Intimacy -- Epilogue: Revisioning Our Lives, Reinventing Ourselves. |
| Summary |
"In Coming Out of Shame, Gershen Kaufman and Lev Raphael expose the role shame has come to play in gay and lesbian lives. Rarely discussed but vastly important, shame powerfully shapes each individual's development of self-esteem, identity, and intimacy - three areas where gay men and lesbians have been extremely vulnerable to the crippling effects of shame. Tracing the historical and cultural sources of gay shame, Kaufman and Raphael reveal how gay men and lesbians have internalized shame, resulting in self-loathing and self-destructive behaviors." "The hallmark of shame is silence, and by breaking the silence around the dynamics of gay shame, Kaufman and Raphael offer a way to "come out" of shame and begin the journey toward wholeness and self-acceptance. Filled with the experiences of those struggling to overcome shame, Coming Out of Shame includes strategies for storing self-esteem, creating a positive gay identity, healing scenes of shame, and developing partnerships in intimacy." "Self-affirming and inspirational, Coming Out of Shame guides the transformation of gay shame into gay pride and empowers gay men and lesbians as no other book has done."--Jacket. |
| Subject |
Gay people -- Psychology.
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Lesbians -- Psychology.
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Gay people -- Identity.
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Lesbians -- Identity.
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Shame.
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Gays -- Identity.
(OCoLC)fst00939278
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Gays -- Psychology.
(OCoLC)fst00939295
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Lesbians -- Identity.
(OCoLC)fst00996559
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Lesbians -- Psychology.
(OCoLC)fst00996570
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Shame. (OCoLC)fst01115183
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| Added Author |
Raphael, Lev, author.
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| Added Title |
Transforming gay and lesbian lives |
| ISBN |
0385477961 |
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9780385477963 |
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