Planning your future: What you weren't told about "having it all" ; Preparing for family-friendly work ; The resources you need ; The value of expertise ; Knowing your rights -- Understanding your options: The family-friendly workplace ; Characteristics of a family-friendly job ; Full-time work options ; Reduced-schedule work options ; Family -friendly benefits ; The "boss" matters -- Conducting your search: Networking for success ; Searching for family-friendly work ; Getting the job ; Asking for more flexibility in your current job ; Writing and delivering your proposal -- After your search: Making it work day to day -- Managing a family-friendly career -- Going it alone -- Staying home, staying marketable.