Introduction: Creating your life -- Step 1, exploring new motherhood -- Step 2, imagining your ideal first year -- Step 3, clarifying your values -- Step 4, choosing your beliefs -- Step 5, setting your intention -- Step 6, deciding what you want -- Step 7, modeling your time, money, and space -- Step 8, finding your own solutions -- Step 9, making commitments and taking action -- Step 10, celebrating your new life -- Afterward: Closing thoughts.