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Author Damour, Lisa, 1970- author.

Title Untangled : guiding teenage girls through the seven transitions into adulthood / Lisa Damour, Ph. D..

Publication Info. New York : Ballantine Books, [2016]
©2016.

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 Avon Free Public Library - Adult Department  305.235 DAMOUR    Check Shelf
 Berlin-Peck Memorial Library - Non Fiction  305.235 DAMOUR    Check Shelf
 Berlin-Peck Memorial Library - Non Fiction  305.235 DAMOUR    Damaged
 Bloomfield, Prosser Library - Adult Department  305.235 DAM    Storage
 Bristol, Main Library - Non Fiction  305.235 DAMOUR    Check Shelf
 Bristol, Manross Branch - Non Fiction  305.235 DAMOUR    Check Shelf
 Canton Public Library - Adult Department  305.2352 DAMOUR    Check Shelf
 Cheshire Public Library - Adult Department Lower Level  305.2352 DAMOUR    Missing
 Cromwell-Belden Public Library - Adult Department  305.235 DAM    Check Shelf
 East Hartford, Raymond Library - Children's Department  PRNT J305.235 D    Check Shelf

Edition First edition.
Description xix, 326 pages ; 22 cm
Bibliography Includes bibliographical references (pages [283]-309) and index.
Contents ONE. Parting with childhood -- The cold shoulder -- Allergic to questions -- Surprisingly mean -- The swimming pool -- Totally competent, except for when she's not -- Blooming, reluctantly -- Smoke without fire -- Parting with childhood: when to worry. The female Peter Pan ; Rushing into adulthood -- TWO. Joining a new tribe -- The pull of popular -- Tribal warfare -- Frenemies -- If your tribe jumped off a bridge ... -- When tribes need elders -- Social (media) skills -- Joining a new tribe: when to worry. Social isolation ; Being bullied ; Being a bully -- THREE. Harnessing emotions -- You: the emotional dumping ground -- I'm upset, now you're upset -- Befriending distress -- Catalytic reactions -- Coping by posting -- How to become an accidental helicopter parent -- Harnessing emotions: when to worry. Recognizing adolescent mood and anxiety disorders ; Self-destructive coping -- FOUR. Contending with adult authority -- Seeing behind the curtain -- The end of "Because I said so" -- Framing danger -- Rupture and repair -- Crazy spots -- Adults with faults -- Holding the line -- Contending with adult authority: when to worry. Too good to be true ; Constantly contending ; Adults contending with each other -- FIVE. Planning for the future -- Impulses, meet the Internet -- The road to the future: who drives? -- Making the grade -- Tense about tests -- Planning for next week -- Dealing with disappointment -- Planning for the future: when to worry. All plan and no play ; No plan in sight -- SIX. Entering the romantic world -- A dream deferred -- A match made in a marketing meeting -- Offering some perspective -- The inner compass -- Dating for credit -- Being gay: the slur and the reality -- Entering the romantic world: when to worry. The tributaries and the lake ; April-June romances -- SEVEN. Caring for herself -- Nodding without listening -- Girls, food, and weight -- Sleep vs. technology -- Getting real about drinking -- Straight talk about drugs -- Sex and its risks -- Caring for herself: when to worry. Eating disorders ; Not ready to launch.
Summary A clinical psychologist offers hope and guidance to parents of teenage girls, helping to demystify their erratic behavior and mood swings by describing the seven developmental passages that all girls go through as they transition to adulthood.
"Lisa Damour, Ph.D., director of the internationally renowned Laurel School's Center for Research on Girls, pulls back the curtain on the teenage years and shows why your daughter's erratic and confusing behavior is actually healthy, necessary, and natural. Untangled explains what's going on, prepares parents for what's to come, and lets them know when it's time to worry,"--Amazon.com.
Subject Teenage girls -- Psychology.
Adolescence.
Adulthood.
Adolescent psychology.
Adolescence. (OCoLC)fst00796984
Adolescent psychology. (OCoLC)fst00797018
Adulthood. (OCoLC)fst00797400
Teenage girls -- Psychology. (OCoLC)fst01145443
ISBN 9780553393057 (hardcover ; alk. paper)
0553393057 (hardcover ; alk. paper)
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